Leah was tender eyed; but Rachel was beautiful and well favoured.
//You know the story. Jacob has gotten ahead in life through trickery, deceiving both his brother and his father at different times, and now he gets a taste of his own medicine. He agrees to serve a man named Laban for seven years in exchange for his daughter, Rachel. Laban had two daughters; Leah was "tender eyed," but Rachel was beautiful, and Jacob loved Rachel.
"Tender eyed" is the King James translation. Other translations are not so kind. The most common translation is that Leah had weak eyes, though other versions call her eyes blue (apparently a real turn-off), or dull, or soft, or lacking sparkle. Bishop John Shelby Spong interprets the text to mean she had "eyes that popped out of her head like those of a cow." Whatever the true meaning—the text is indeed difficult to translate—it’s clear there was no compliment intended.
As the story goes, Jacob works seven years for Laban, who then awards him his daughter, and Jacob consummates their marriage, only to wake up next to his wife in the morning to find ... Leah! He has taken to wife the daughter with ugly eyes! This bit of chicanery on the part of Laban is taken in stride by Jacob—after all, deception is only the way of life he knows—and he agrees to serve Laban another seven years for the second daughter. We're told she was worth it.
(p.s., Don't be distressed about poor Jacob. In the end, he devises a nasty plot to steal the best of Laban's herds, and thus gets the best of Laban after all.)
I would like to offer you another way of looking at the term "weak eyes." Think about the last time you REALLY had a long hard cry. Now recall what your eyes looked like after you looked in the mirror. They were probably red, puffy, dull and dreary. Now imagine what they would look like if you were crying both day and night, EVERY day. Some commentators say that Leah's eyes were weakened from having cried so much after learning that her father, Laban and her aunt (Rebekah) had arranged for her to marry, Esau, who and because like she, was the oldest. While Rachel, being the younger sister, had been arranged to marry the younger, more ideal mate and brother, Jacob. Leah feared for what her life might be like being married to Esau who she knew, by word of mouth more than likely, was wild and untamed. As a result, because Leah spent so much of her time weeping about what was to come-an unpredictable life being married to a wild and unpredictable man, the youthfulness, fire & desire and twinkle in her eyes had "weakened." It was not that she was drop dead unattractive. She merely lacked the allure, liveliness & vigor in her eyes AND her demeanor that her sister obviously possessed, of course though, knowing she was getting the better deal in terms of a husband.
ReplyDeleteInteresting, thank you! How did Esau get into the story?
ReplyDeleteOne would wonder if Jacob is really the better find, though! Sneaky little brother that he is.